Too fast - too soon...
Less than 6 months since Linda's diagnose and hospice has informed us that there is little life left inside of her. Mom is now on morphine and resting most of the day. She has little energy and has been unable to sit up for a few days.
I still read her emails and letters and share stories from her loved ones. Today I just held her hand and watched her breath, breath ever so slowly. My family all said their goodbyes and told mom that we'll be okay if she is ready to leave us. I found it difficult to say goodbye. Am I selfish to not want to say goodbye? The other day, while swimming early in the morning, I thought to myself maybe we didn't do all we can do to keep mom strong. Why do I doubt the doctors? Did her course of chemo prolong her life or set her back by draining her energy? On the other hand are we on this earth for a cause and once we fulfill our task we depart? I have decided to take the high road and just accept mom's fate. She might not be here but she will always be here - if you know what I mean.
When I think of my mom - this is what comes to mind:
- A big smile that lights up the room.
- Unconditional love.
- Pride in her family and her traditions.
- Sounding board - listening & providing advice.
- Honesty & ethical.
- Reliable - always there for you anytime.
OK, so you have been reading my blog. It's my personal diary and I'm pleased to share my thoughts with anyone that cares to read these words. Now, I want and need your feedback. I want you to add your comments to this blog. I find it therapeutic to write your feelings out especially when we are all emotional. I would like to include some of these comments in my eulogy. I suggest writing a brief story that you will most remember about Linda or just a few words that best describe Linda.
Thank you in advance for your feedback, but most importantly for your love, support and caring. My dad will need every one's support most and I know this will not be an easy task. Please continue to call him or write to him (he hasn't mastered email yet) - his heart is broken over my mom and it kills me to see him in this funk.
60 comments:
There are so many words for me to describe Linda...most importantly: Loved...laughter, listened, lived life!
There is so much I will remember about her but some of my personal favorite times were:
Walking the ITME show with her - where Linda knew everyone & loved to talk to everyone! As vendors stuck her with flashing and glowing pins - you could see us walking down an aisle a mile away. A favorite ITME moment, whether fixed or not, was when she won the grand prize to Tahati at the InterContinental party. I can still hear the annoucers name saying "Lindaaaa Alllmeaaasss," as we screamed with excitement. That year everywhere we went Linda won prizes and she was kind enough to give me the nights in London she won. This year walking around the show without my sidekick was very hard. Her presence was definitely missed. Everyone asked where she was and with hope I wanted to say "she'll be here next year!". When I did tell vendors that she was close with what was going on they expressed geniune shock and sadness...like so many others, they loved her. When it came time to make my way to the premium (gifts) aisle, it definitely was not nearly as fun eating my way through the aisles without her there and stuffing cookies and samples into our bags...it's just not as fun doing it solo and not having someone to laugh with while doing it!
That of course reminds me of another special time together: Linda and I were picking up food at Costco for the Impact giveback Holiday party ..well a half hour of being there and stuffed from eating all the samples (more then once), we still managed to have nothing in the cart. Needless to say, we were not responsible for picking up food the following years.
And then of course there is the Turkish Bath massage experience Linda had while in Istanbul. Although I wasn't with her on the trip, when Linda came home and told us this story, we laughed so hard that tears were rolling down our face and our cheeks hurt from smiling. I'm glad I made her tell it to me often because it is a story I will never forget and like Linda never want to forget.
She was a mentor, a friend and made you feel like family I will miss her and love her always!
Ira and Family -
Do not torture yourself with – Did I do all I could, should we have done this or that? Pancreatic cancer is a terror. Linda knows how much her family and friends love her.
I am so, so sorry. I will miss her very much. Words do no justice.
Love,
Diane Boardman
Ira-
Thank you for sharing these final days with all of us. It truly makes me realize how important and precious each day is and to be thankfully for the time we have. All my memories are fond childhood memories, that is how I think of your mom. Truly wished we had had a chance to visit just one last time though. Send her my love,
Barbara
Dear Aunt Linda,
Just like Ira, I selfishly am not ready to let you go. You have been a part of my life for 47 years, and it is a bleak thought thinking of the world, especially around holiday time without you being the hostess with the mostess.
So I will use this space to write a "thinking of you" letter. I was thinking of you yesterday, and about the day that you unwrapped the portrait of Grandpa Sam that you were kind enough to commission me to paint for you. For the most part, the feedback was good, everyone pretty much thought I captured his expression. But it was your opinion that counted the most. I nervously watched you from across the room. Your expression went from surprise, to shock, and gradually to unadulterated joy. You were the only one in the room who expressed wonder at how I was able to capture his very essence especially in his arthritic hands. You hugged and kissed me that day as never before or since, and I knew that the painting meant more to you than you could ever articulate.
I also never really told you, and you will find this difficult to believe, but it's the truth, that I was so inspired as a child by a small oil portrait hanging in your living room in Wantaugh. It was of a model from a magazine that you had painted in a beginners painting class that you had taken at the YWHA. I thought it was the most beautiful painting that I had ever seen, and to this very day some 4o years later, there is not a portrait commision that i do where I don't have the image of that painting in the back of my mind. I wonder if Ira still has it, I would love to see it again.
I don't know how to end this letter honestly knowing that I will never hug or kiss you again. Never see you smile when I present you with your holiday flowers or play a little tune on your out of tune piano. I will carry you in my heart and soul for the rest of my life and hope and pray that when I am ready to depart this life, I shall do so with the grace and courage that you have shown to the world.
I love you my dear sweet Aunt Linda.
Gary Schwartz, 2008
Dear Aunt Linda,
What can I say? Nothing that you already do not know. I have so many fond memories from childhood, my college years - thank you for being there in maryland and beyond. You have been there for the good and the very bad and my only comfort in all of this is my mom will be there for you - and you guys will be together - lucy and ethel - and will watch over all of us...
this is not good bye as I know I will speak to you through the spirit...be at peace with everyone -
i love you,
eileen
I loved Linda before I ever even set eyes on her! She radiated the same warmth in person that she did on EVERY single phone call that I had with her. Some people just have "that thing", and she does! I was a few months pregnant with my daughter when we finally met last year and I think she may have been just as excited as my own mom was when she found out. The circle of life! The Almeas family shows the same warmth to everyone that she does and I am sure that is the result of having a beautiful wife/mom/grandma and mother-in-law! I am SO happy that I can say I met Linda Almeas!
Linda and I spent the past 25 years comparing “who’s skinnier.” I can see her and hear her now. We’d lie to each other, insult each other and confide in each other. Her best confession was when she told me her concerns about a FAM trip to Tahiti. “I’m not going,” she said. “Even for free I’m not wearing a bathing suit in public.”
I think that’s what I’ll miss most. Her sense of humor. She was so funny she thought her honey cake was delicious.
What was delicious was Linda. In Australia we danced on tables, at business meetings we tried to be as “corporate” as we could without giggling in front of the client. She was the one who nagged my kids to have a baby, she was the one who loved her family more than life itself, she was the one with an adventurous spirit who wanted to see it all and do it all.
She saw a lot and she did a lot. I miss her already. My sister. When I saw her last week the first thing she said to me was “Look I win, I’m skinnier.” I wish she’d lost.
How can you simply write a comment on someone who has touched so many?
Linda is an angel and has touched my life in so many ways.
In a recent conversation with Lauren, I told her what I had told Linda so many times, that she was more like a mother to me than a friend.
Always willing to listen, no matter how busy, always loving, never ever judgemental, always giving and that smile! Her smile could penetrate you and make you laugh and feel that the world was a great place to be so long as you had a friend like Linda in it.
I was able to call her a few weeks ago and she answered the phone sounding so very weak but still apologizing for being weak...that is Linda. I can't yet speak of her in the past tense, I just can't. This world will be a far less exciting, warm and forgiving place for not having Linda in it and I am blessed for having known her, for having so many memories and laughs with her.
I remember when we used to talk about all things "Jewish":)) We discovered we were both of Romanian decent and then I said, "well actually my family comes from a little known area known as Bessarabia" and she said "I can't believe it, that is why we connect - I am from Bessarabia". She quickly followed up with Mamaliga recipes which of course I never attempted:) We used to share information about the trek of Bessarabian Jewry coming to Romania (Moldavia) from Turkey and she was thrilled with that information.
It was never about business with Linda, it was about life, love and a deep friendship that will endure forever and her love of discovery of new places, cultures and people. I am so glad that I was able to bring her with me on several FAM trips to Istanbul back in December 2007 and again to Dubai in February, 2008. She had a wonderful time and my best memory is haggling for THREE HOURS in the Grand Bazaar and she said "Danielle, I will give you the $100 that you are trying to negotiate" and I laughed and said "No way, I am getting the leather coat for my price". She was so into it and we had a day long project going from store to store just laughing and experiencing the art of a good haggle and she came home with a gorgeous leather coat and I am proud to say that no one could have haggled better!!
In Dubai, she was so lively but wasn't really feeling all that well and we all thought that she had caught the same bug that the rest of us did. Of course it turned out unfortunately that it was far more serious.
I remember when I lost my first pregnancy in the 8th month and she was the one that offered the most support. Always knowing what to say and what not to say. Always just being there to offer guidance, a good hug, some tears and that is when I knew that for whatever reason, I was benefiting from the kindest soul this world had to offer and I don't want to let her go, it's just not fair.
She embraced life with such vigor and such openness, never afraid to go the extra mile and this is someone that I feel should have lived far longer. Heaven will benefit and be a far better place with her in it and we sadly must suffer a great loss, a true void that won't ever be filled.
I didn't expect to write this long but as I am writing and crying, I am so thankful that I had a chance to tell her "I love you so much Linda" just about 2 weeks ago and of course she said "I love you too" without hesitation.
I will carry that love with me always and I will carry lessons learned from her. When I doubt people or am apprehensive, I am going to jump into life with two feet and know that tomorrow is never guaranteed and although there are some tough lessons in this life, it is a beautiful one and the only one we have so make the most of it. You have a choice to be happy or not, go for happy. Take a chance, trust and love fully and you will be better off for it.
I missed her at ITME especially at our reception and I was so happy that the "travel gods" were able to work their magic about 2 years ago and she did win the trip to Tahiti, Bora Bora and Moorea - truly the trip of a lifetime. It was as it was meant to be. When she returned, the always gracious Linda took me and my husband out to dinner at the Highlawn Pavillion and she, Arnie, myself and my husband enjoyed an evening of laughter and stories that I look back at now and wish it could have lasted longer.
If we can all leave a mark on all of those around us as Linda does / did, our lives will have been fulfilled.
I remember the stories of her trips with her grandsons who she loved more than life itself. Her PRIDE in both of them and the stories of where they wanted to go...there was no place she would not have taken them to. Her love for Samantha is unmeasurable and she was always proud to tell stories of what Samantha was learning and experiences she was having at school.
I remember sales calls that included coffee making in the back room of the office and Jenny Craig lunches - one of our many attempts to lose weight!! Those however were quickly followed by "just a little" bit of chocolate:)
Of course being a loving mother, I knew all about Ira (yes Ira I have some stories:)) and also of course spoke of Cindy. She loved you both more than you can possibly imagine. I know you know that but all of us know it as well. She adored her daughter - in - law.
Arnie was her soul mate and the man she had given her love to for 49 years. I used to think to myself that I had never seen such devotion but knowing Linda, not surprising.
Back in October she told me that she hoped she could hold on for 2 very special events to her. The Bar Mitzvah of her grandson and her 50th wedding anniversary. I of course said that she would and I really believed it. I had to believe it. Her family was everything to her, her friends were everything to her and I am so fortunate to be listed among them. For that I am forever grateful.
Linda, I love you, always will and I miss you, I always will. Thank you for the laughs and the friendship and the beautiful memories. You are and always have been a "neshema tova" a " good soul" through and through. I just wish we had more time to make more memories.
I love you.
My experiences with Lida have always left me with an uplifted feeling inside. Whether we're talking business or a breif chit chat there's always a smile and a genuine interest for someone else'e well being. In the time I have been forntunate enough to know Linda and all of the Almeas family they have become much more than good clients, they have become good freinds. My favorite conversation with Linda was the starting of Impact in her garage and the role she played. While I always enjoy my conversations with Arnie when I call the house I do miss talking with Linda.
No question about it, losing a Mother is tough enough, but losing a Mother that has been a friend, a business advisor and an inspiration for you is really hard. But yes, you have to know that we are all here for a purpose.
I recall when my Mom was experiencing her last days. She was in New York, where I grew up; she just would never leave her city as she called it. I flew out to see her at the request of my older brother who had been taking care of her daily. When I got to her bedside she talked and talked about me. She wanted to know how I was doing! Almost like a checklist in her head. I stayed a few days and then had to return to California. I was back but only a few hours and got the call that Mom had passed.
When I went back for her funeral, the priest told me that once I had left she told him, "it's okay now, I'm ready, my boys are fine".
I know it is hard to say goodbye and I am tearing up even as I try and type this on your blog. I know how much Linda means to you and your family and to those of us who have been lucky enough to meet her and work with her over the years. She is leaving so much for us to be proud of, the least of which is one fine Son who has had a lifetime of mentoring from one fine lady.
Linda, you get some rest, Ira will carry the ball now.
One story that always makes me laugh is:
Many, many years ago, we got a group of former Jet Set Travel girls together for a girls night out. We were having a great time and the evening went fairly late. Linda got the idea that we should call the husbands and say "Hi, this is Linda, is Lynn home yet?" The husband would then say NO and then your mom would say "You're kidding me, she left with her guy a long time ago." It was particularly funny because she wanted to start with Lynn Seligson whose husband Herb would have flipped out. Such a trouble maker - that Linda.
We had such fun times at Jet Set Travel, she loved to call me a dummy. Especially the time, I sent this honeymoon couple to Club Med, and didn't write them tickets from DC to Miami, where they were picking up the Club Med charter. There they were at the airport with no way to get to Miami. OOPs - Linda had a field day with that one.
I remember when you went to Japan and your mom would tell us how the Japanese were so intriqued by this tall, curly haired blond Caucasian. They would come up to you on the street and touch you.
Don't tell Cindy, but you were her pride and joy. However, you were nothing compared to Steven, Jacob and Samantha. Those were the true joys of her life.
Linda really lived life and enjoyed every moment. But oh how she deserved so many more moments. I always liked having her around, she was an older mother of an 8 year old than I was. Kept me feeling young.
Give her a big kiss for me and tell her I love her and will miss her so very much. If you can, please put this on the blog.
Love to all,
Debbie
Thank you again for keeping me informed about your Mom. There is no easy way to handle all of this. You and your family have been fortunate to have had a good mother and mentor and you have been personally fortunate that your Mom has lived to see you successful in your family and your business. That is the best any of us can expect.
It is a blessing that we have progessed to where our loved ones who are nearing the end of their earthly days can have the benefit of hospice care so that we can actually say goodbye and go out with some dignity. I know it is disappointing that Linda will not be able to physically attend your upcoming Mitzvahs, but she will be here in spirit and in memory. God bless.
I had not heard that your Mom was not well. My heart goes out to all of you as you go through this most difficult time. Your Mom is such a special person. A ray of sunshine, such a positive attitude. Such a wonderful family!
Please know that you are all in our hearts and prayers. Stay strong!
Love,
Thea
Dear Ira,
I just wanted to write to tell you how sorry Aaron and I are for you and your family. I have been reading your blog and wanted you to know that feeling guilty is normal. I felt the same way when I was in your predicament. Unfortunately this thing is bigger than all of us. I am sure you were a wonderful son and your mother loved you dearly. Just from the stories Lauren has told me about you and your family I could tell that you were all very close. If in the future you would like Sam to come with Lauren to Florida for a little vacation please know my door will always be open. I know we are strangers but my heart is breaking for you. If I can do anything please let me know. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely,
Aunt Hildene
Dear Ira & Almeas family,
I am devastated to hear that this incomprehensible cruel disease called cancer has indiscriminately struck such a great lady. I will speak in the present tense as, it is so true that she will be with us forever and her goodness will last an eternity.
7 years ago when I was new and just started working for PR tourism, Linda gave me the opportunity with our brand new hotel in Puerto Rico and we formed a great relationship. On the phone I could feel her smile and positive and energy & in speaking with her, I was allowed me to see her personal side and learn of her compassion, interest in life and in people and see her readiness and availability to help others especially the less fortunate. . She opened a door for me and I came through for her and with her professionalism & experience and high standards, we put together a perfect program for her clients and her only concern was, "I hope it doesn't rain on them in PR". She jokingly said "Can you help me with that". I told her I would pray for good weather and I remember after the phone call, I stopped and prayed and then weeks later, she told me they had perfect weather.
When I am done with my comments, now I will also stop & pray again. I will pray that GOD relieves Linda of pain. I will pray for God's comfort for Linda and for her family. I will pray for strength to endure this undeserved trial and for GOD's grace and peace to Linda & the Almeas family. This summer I was able to help arrange in one or our hotels for a vacation for Linda, her husband & grandchild. I did not know at the time how significant that time was for her but am joyed knowing that she really enjoyed herself and was able to spend quality time with those she loved. 9 years ago my mom died in my arms of colon cancer and I know what the Almeas family is feeling. I can just say that GOD did give me the strength to handle it and though I still miss her and wish I had her, a stronger feeling in my heart is happiness & gratitude for having her the time that I did and for having such a great mom. My consolation to you is that through all this, there will come a time when the good memories & love that you had for each other will overshadow the hurt & when you think of the lovely smile by this lovely woman. It will bring a smile to your face.
GOD Bless you all and give you peace. I will pray for you.
Ishmael Kolthoff
Sol Melia Hotels & Resorts
Ira, this is the first I am hearing so please forgive me for not getting in
touch with you sooner. I am so saddened to hear the news! I was left
speechless and overcome with emotion at the thought of her having to go
through something so horrible.
She cared about everyone she came in contact with as if they were her
family. Her nurturing and caring ways always seemed to calm even the
harshest sales rep on some trips. For some of our sales people, they grew
up with her and I am sure they will also be saddened by this news.
Please give her a huge hug for me and let her know my thoughts and prayers
are with you all during this very difficult time.
Linda.. Thank you for your kind words, you motherly advise and most of all
for treating us all like family...We love you!
Cathy Reardon
Arnie, Ira, Cindy, Roberta, Steven, Jacob and Samantha,
Writing this note to all of you is extremely difficult. My heart is broken to realize that I will never enjoy a laugh and joke with Linda again. Linda was by " big sister" and I loved her and all of you very much.
I don't how know to put into words all that I am feeling now, except a great loss. Linda and I shared alot of our lives and always had a wonderful time together, even though I was always "the kid", even at 61. She was always there to share good times and bad times. When Jay died, I remember Linda, Arnie, Don and Mona coming to be with us as soon as they heard about his death. After Jay's death, we spoke to Marisa and Ilana about who would they would want us to name as their Guardians in our wills. Linda and Arnie were their first response and so it went.
As they say, Linda had a "heart as big as all outdoors". When we were planning bridal showers for Marisa and Ilana, Linda called to say she wanted to help make the parties extra special, but no one was to know that she helped out.
As you all know, we shared our birthday. I was born on Linda's eighth birthday. When our birthday would come - she would also say - so you are how many years older than me? September 26th will never be the same.
Everyone that knows Linda shares in your pain and in your grief- we are here for you and love you.
I am loosing more than a cousin - I am loosing my friend and "big sister' - these will never be replaced.
All my love,
Trudy
Hi Ira,
I just can't imagine how hard it must be to go thru what has been thrust upon you and your family. Our hearts are with you and please always know we are here to help you out in any way we can. Your kind words and thoughts in the blog are heart wrenching and oh so wonderful . Your Mom is such an incredible person; good, through and through (right to the core)-guess with you, the apple doesn't fall far from the tree.
Mitch
Dear Ira & Almeas family,
I am devastated to hear that this incomprehensible cruel disease called cancer has indiscriminately struck such a great lady. I will speak in the present tense as, it is so true that she will be with us forever and her goodness will last an eternity. 7 years ago when I was new and just started working for PR tourism, Linda gave me the opportunity with our brand new hotel in Puerto Rico and we formed a great relationship. On the phone I could feel her smile and positive and energy & in speaking with her, I was allowed me to see her personal side and learn of her compassion, interest in life and in people and see her readiness and availability to help others especially the less fortunate. . She opened a door for me and I came through for her and with her professionalism & experience and high standards, we put together a perfect program for her clients and her only concern was, "I hope it doesn't rain on them in PR". She jokingly said "Can you help me with that". I told her I would pray for good weather and I remember after the phone call, I stopped and prayed and then weeks later, she told me they had perfect weather. When I am done with my comments, now I will also stop & pray again. I will pray that GOD relieves Linda of pain. I will pray for God's comfort for Linda and for her family. I will pray for strength to endure this undeserved trial and for GOD's grace and peace to Linda & the Almeas family. This summer I was able to help arrange in one or our hotels for a vacation for Linda, her husband & grandchild. I did not know at the time how significant that time was for her but am joyed knowing that she really enjoyed herself and was able to spend quality time with those she loved. 9 years ago my mom died in my arms of colon cancer and I know what the Almeas family is feeling. I can just say that GOD did give me the strength to handle it and though I still miss her and wish I had her, a stronger feeling in my heart is happiness & gratitude for having her the time that I did and for having such a great mom. My consolation to you is that through all this, there will come a time when the good memories & love that you had for each other will overshadow the hurt & when you think of the lovely smile by this lovely woman. It will bring a smile to your face.
GOD Bless you all and give you peace. I will pray for you.
Ishmael Kolthoff
Sol Melia Hotels & Resorts
Ira.......Of course me and everyone else are writing through our tears. It's a little strange. I go from imagining your mom now and thinking how much you're hurting and I feel ill... actually nauseous. But then I quickly think of the Linda I know (who everyone loves) and I smile (almost chuckle to myself). No smile compares to your moms. Always open-armed and ready to hug, full of compliments, sharing a cute story or simply qvelling over her beautiful children. It's obvious to anyone who knows your mom that you truly are your momma's boy. You both share a zest for life, a strong love of family and a quiet confidence that comes from being proud of who you are. She certainly done good! Please send our thoughts to everyone. We love you and your family very much. Howie is in Puerto Rico but sends his prayers too!
I read your blog and immediately called my mom and cried while I read it to her. But when I read the part about you wanting anecdotes about your mom I laughed. My mom asked why. The story that we've held onto in our 25 plus year relationship about your mom was the cupcake incident. Howie and I had just had Josh and we came out to see your new house in Livingston. Your mother being the consummate grandma (not even a grandma herself yet) made it a point on one of her very busy saturdays to stop by to see our baby. Being Linda there was no way she would come empty handed. Your mom walked into the house with her beautiful smile and a bakery bought special sprinkled cupcake for my son. We all laughed (including her) when Roberta said, "He's 3 months old he can't have a cupcake". We all ate the cupcake! Tell your mom thanks!!
Ira, your updates move me to tears each time I read them. You are speaking from the heart, and it is wonderful for you to be sharing these strong and intimate feelings, especially during this very difficult time.
Your mom has always been such a sweetheart to me. From the first time I met her during your courtship with Roberta, to your engagement party, wedding and all the years (many yrs) since, Linda has always been so sweet, kind, considerate. She always wanted to know how I was, how my family was, always asked for my mom. Always with a huge smile on her face.
Since Sam has been with your parents, I have felt that they were no longer "just" your parents, or "just" Roberta's in-laws, but my friends as well. Having a daughter or granddaughter the same age, we have spoken on the phone, emailed, made play dates, carpooled, sent the girls to day camp and dance together.
Your mom had a difficult fight with much adversity. It is a losing battle, this fight against pancreatic cancer, but your mom fought hard for as long as she could. You and your family have been blessed with a loving mom, wife, grandmother and friend and she will always be with us.
Love you all.
Pam
Ira
You are one very strong guy. I am proud to say you are family.
Its hard to believe where we are today. Linda does not deserve this. It makes me so angry words fail me.
I am at my desk crying as I write this note.
Your Mom is one of the nicest, sweetest, honest, sincere people I know.
She is the only person I know that always has a smile on her face. Even when things are not the greatest she ALWAYS smiles. I have been lucky enough to have had one on one time with her at my office over the years. We have gotten to know each other over time. The two of us would critique others...from your side of the family to my side. Of course our families are the best...ask her!! The travels were always of the talk of the day.
She is so proud of you and Roberta. Her eyes always lights up when she talks about her kids. She has been through a lot up and down and all around.
Its hard to understand why her.
I have never met anyone who has the charm and smarts like her. Nothing is too hard for her. When my Mom had the stroke she was the first one there to be of assistance. Your Dad has a special relationship with my parents that both cheerish. I love your Mom and Dad. They are two great people and it hurts me to see what is happening.
I am at a loss for words and my heart hurts for you.
Van
Dear Ira and Family,
I am so, so sorry to hear about your Mom. It is just so devastating. It has been many years but I wanted to send you a note to let you know that for whatever time I was with you guys, I loved it. If the circumstance in my life had been different, I would have chosen to stay with you. I loved Linda's incredible sense of business which of course she instilled in you, Ira. She is a sharp lady but first and foremost and more importantly she was an incredibly loving Mom, wife and grandmother, and that I did see...every day. I cannot forget having Arnie in the office with us helping stuff our gift bags and the banter between them. How she would light up at the thought of your kids coming to visit.
I will not forget Linda taking me to your eye doctor when I scratched my cornea (which only I could do with a pair of sunglasses) and helping me because I didn't have the insurance. This is something special that I will not forget about your Mom. I was an employee but I always felt that if I had a problem I could go to her. I probably didn't thank you both enough and never shared how much I did enjoy my time there.
I also will not forget that when I went through my bad ordeal she did not pass judgement on me and was willing to give me another chance. She told me to never give up. Again, these are things that are not forgotten, even after all these years. When people touch lives it stays with them forever.
I am sending you all prayers of peace, love and light and many Angels to carry you all through this time.
There are many, many more people out there that have been touched by your Mom. I feel fortunate that I was able to share this with you for whatever it's worth.
Love and prayers, God bless you Linda.
Susan Pedersen.
p.s. I will never ever forget stuffing the gift bags when that box of packing peanuts let loose and they "static-ed" up the side of your pants and your socks. You were on your way to a new client. You had on new shoes too.
Ask Jeanne! She will remember!
A couple of things to be ready for:
You will want to be in the room with her when she passes on, you will likely NOT be in the room when she goes. Be prepared to understand that she might wait until no one is around to let go.
You will continue to question what was done, what you did or did not do and would have should have done different. That’s normal, but let it go. You were a great son and could not change the course of this.
You can not yet imagine what you wish you had said, but will find that it is amazing how much more you would have to say if you still could.
You will be sad, then angry, then sad again for some time, then someday you’ll be OK again
The coolest thing will be the good dreams you will have where you speak with your Mom again and she is fine. You will wake up feeling great when that happens. My best dream was when my dad came by to tell me he wasn’t really sick with cancer, he just needed a really good sleep and now that he was rested he felt great. I felt great for the whole week after that because it was like I knew he was OK where he was after all.
I hope this helps, if not now, later. And for what its worth, I am angry at this cancer along with you!!!
Dear Ira and family,
Thank you for sharing your treasured memories and feelings about your mom. We truly appreciate your trust and honesty in letting me be a part of your mom's, yours and your family journeys. Please be assured of our continued thoughts, support and prayers for your mom and your family during this trying moment.
With love,
Minh & Stu
As my mom and I scrolled down the hundreds of blogs left, we realized that we couldn't really put our own words together to explain how much Linda will be missed and how many lives are affected by just one unforgettable woman. Eight years ago, Joy and Linda met and ever since, she hasn't just been a boss, but a part of the family, a second mother. Her smile lights up a room and to me, well, i felt like i could tell her anything in the world. Some of the best memories were made with her and the Almeas family altogether. Disney cruise wouldn't have been the same amazing experience if it weren't for everyone at table #50. rosh hashanah dinner was filled with nothing but laughter and smiles and the only thing that hurt was our stomachs from eating way too much delicious food. Linda looked more then amazing. She is beautiful inside and out. She is such a strong person and it shows through the battle she is fighting right now. We love her more then life itself. she will forever be with us.
always,
joy, michi and jonathan
As I sit here and think about what I would want to share and the "right" words to say, I fight back my own emotion as it brings me to a place where I am forced to think of my own mortality and how short all of our time really is here.
I cannot believe that is is nearly 15 years since I met Ira and Linda when I was still on the hotel side of the business and was their Westin National Sales Rep. I was immediately drawn to them and the family and developed such an admiration for the bond that they shared with one another.
While I had much more limited time with Linda, I had developed a fond and now long standing relationship with Ira. I had the pleasure of having Arnie and Linda join me on a FAM trip to Los Angeles a few years after meeting them and knew that what I had originally felt from my first meeting was that much more confirmed...these were special people.
Losing a loved one is a tough thing. Many of us have gone through the loss of a parent and there are no words that can take away the pain, the hurt, the anger surrounding the questions of what more could we have done or did we really do enough...I wish those feelings were not there, but they are...
Now, closing in on 4 years since I held my father as he drew his last breath after only two weeks from diagnosos to passing, I realize that the anger has passed. What has remained is the wonderful memories that were shared and the time that I had to spend with him. Even in the last two weeks, I was able to share and tell him how much I loved him. I remember telling him it was ok to leave and we would be ok. If I had but one regret, it would be that while my dad was not here physically to see the birth of my daughter, he was and is here in spirit each and every day. I see his smile in my daughter and can celebrate in the memory of the positive impact he has had on my life.
So there are no magic words...the reality is that it basically, sucks. But the time will help bring all the wonderful memories to the surface and while we mourn and miss, we celebrate and focus on the positive as we heal our souls.
Live each day full of love for we do not know how many we have been given. Sing like no one is listening and dance like no one is watching...at the end of the day, it fills the soul and helps nurture our sense of self.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you dear Ira and the entire family. You are surrounded in love. Bathe in the beauty of the life your mother had given to you and the wonderful person you have grown to become.
Namaste.
Michael Shannon
Ira I am so surprised & sorrowed to hear about Linda. My heart goes out to all of you. We just lost a friends son (42) same cancer. So be thankful you had her that long. He lived 2 years after being diagnosed but I wouldn't say it was with quality. Your children got to know their grandmother mine never did they are lucky to have memories. I know how much she loved them.My heart goes out to your Father I know how much he will miss her. My prayers are with all of you during these hard times. I will always remember her Matzo Ball soup she brought me at the holidays. Good luck to all & God Bless.
Helen
DEAR IRA,
AS SHE HAS TO YOU, LINDA HAS ADDED A GREAT DEAL OF HAPPINESS TO MY LIFE
AND A PIECE OF ME WILL GO WITH HER. SOME OF THE BEST TIMES I HAVE EVER
HAD WERE SHARED WITH LINDA AND ARNIE. AT A TIME WHEN SISTERS DIDN"T TALK
TO EACH OTHER AND MOTHER'S DIDN'T TALK TO SONS, WE FOUR, LINDA, ARNIE,
RUTHE AND MIKE, OFTEN FELT AS IF WE WERE THE ONLY SANE PEOPLE IN THE
ROOM. AT MORE WEDDINGS, BAR MIZVAHS AND OTHER EVENTS THAN I CAN REMEMBER
WE LAUGHED WHEN MUCH OF THE ROOM WAS EITHER ANGRY OR SILENT. I SHARE
YOUR GRIEF AND CAN ONLY CONSOLE YOU ONLY WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT YOU
WERE ABLE TO SHARE LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP WITH HER FOR FORTY FIVE PLUS
YEARS. BARBARA WAS FOURTEEN AND CHUCK BARELY ELEVEN WHEN RUTHE WAS
SNATCHED AWAY AND NONE OF US HAD THE CHANCE TO SAY GOODBYE. CONTINUE TO
BE STRONG AND GIVE ARNIE A HUG FOR ME. FINALLY, REMEMBER ALL THE GOOD
THINGS AND TIME YOU SHARED NOT THE LAST SIX MONTHS.
I guess I'm like your Dad not very proficient with blogs etc. I feel very fortunate that I was able to see Linda in early October when she was alert and we spent three wondeful hours together. Minna and I will both miss her very much and will always remember her infectous smile. She is one of the few people who was always willing to help anybody at a moments notice regardless of the situation. We both feel we are better people for having known her and spent quality time with Linda. I promise you I will continue to call your Dad on a regular basis and he knows he can call me anytime if he wants to get things off his chest. I am a good listener.
We love you all.
Dear Ira -- I send you a big hug. your blog brought tears to my eyes. Since I really didn't have the pleasure of knowing your Mom, I have just read others comments so that I could understand more.
Having not been through this, I can only tell you that my heart aches for you. But you also must always remember everything that your mom gave to you and your family, her grandkids, friends, business associates, neighbors and friends. A part of her will always live on in you and them.
Ira -- you are a wonderful son to Linda! Lots of love and support to you!
Cherie
Ira;
We have been thinking about you every single day. Just wanted to send you a
quick note to let you know that we are so sad that mom is so sick and i
truly say a prayer for her everyday. i can not tell you since i am alittle
girl how much your parents have meant to me. truly not having a real aunt
and uncle always made aunt linda and uncle arnie so special. I always looked
forward to there visits. I always though your mom and my dad would have made
a great couple.
just wanted you to know eric and i are both thinking about you everyday
please give mom and dad a kiss for us.
Dear Ira
Thank you so much for informing me about your mom. I am so very sad to hear about Linda, words can not express.
I had a feeling something was not right when I tried to contact her, she was always so good about returning emails and calls...I guess a side of me kept thinking that she must be
travelling.... somewhere in the world.
Your mom was always such a pleasure to speak to, we had many conversations about her grandchldren and at the time, my teenage daughters. She was so very proud of her family and just adored her grandchildren.
Please give her my regards... My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.
Dear Ira:
Thank you so much for sending me your blog and giving me an update on everything going on with Linda. This was especially hard for me because my grandma had pancreatic cancer as well. I took a month off of work to spend time with her, bathe her, feed her, everything. That was an honor for me and it was the least that I could do for the most amazing woman I ever met and the person that raised me.
It is so important that you spend as much time as you can with Linda and show her that you love her everyday. Please send her all my love and let me know how she is doing.
Take care of yourself, your family and Linda. May God bless you both.
Maritza
Your heartfelt blog left me in tears. As I shed tears for you and your family, I pray for Linda, that her time in pain is minimal. Though our time as business partners was short, it was enough time for me to learn how important her family is to her, how proud of you she is and what a big heart she is….Special memories of our long talks on site inspections and sharing special moments in Ireland, I will never forget her.
You must be exhausted. Take care of yourself and your family. Remember: As we come into this world those around us are crying tears of joy. As we exit this world, if those surrounding us are crying it means that we have lived a good life….it is OK to cry….
I’ll pray for you and your family.
Dear Ira,
I am very sorry to hear about Linda. I do know how difficult it is to go through this, I had that with my daughter Michelle and I am thankful she is OK now. Knowing that others care and pray for you does help some but as you say in your message you have had a wonderful relationship with her and take it from me she had done an awesome job with you! Keep in mind always the good times, treasure them, and do not be angry, it is not fair that she is suffering and you feel helpless as I did just treasure the time left. My prayers are with your family,
Sofia D'herckers
Dear Ira,
I don't even know what to say as I had no idea your mom was this sick. I can only send my heart-felt thoughts to you and your entire family. I know what its like to see someone with such a terrible disease. Shortly after I was married at 27 my mother in law was diagnosed with cancer. She was like my "other" Mom and I was truly her daughter since she only had sons. My husband and I were really the only family she had left. I spent the first 10 months as a newlywed living with her, taking care of her and the worse part was watching first hand what cancer can do to a person.
Linda is one of a kind Ira...You are so lucky she is your MOM....
My thoughts are with you Ira......thank you for letting me know...The only thing I can say is be strong Ira, the people we love don't ever leave us, they stay with us forever. I send my love and prayers to Linda.
Ira, roberta, Steven, Jacob and Samantha,
I don't really have the words to express what I am feeling right now so I will share a couple of memories.
Aunt Linda's gracious smile and warm hug.
The few times a year that we got together, usually on holidays, I new that she was truly happy to see us.
That kind of warmth cannot be faked.
She always wanted to hear about Diane and my trips abroad. Even when she was incredibly tired after a long dinner party for 23 people, she would still want to hear travel stories. I think besides family, travel was her favorite thing to talk about.
I am thinking of you all.
Love,
Kenny
Dear Ira,
What can I say or tell you that I haven't already done. When I left you and your Dad this afternoon, I cried all the way from the house until I exited from I280. When I kissed your mon goodbye and tole her that I would see her on Monday, she turned to me and looked at me with a small smile which she was able to muster. Fifty three years ago this month I met mom at Aunt Marcia's sweet sixteen. what a roller coaster ride it has been. we all reached the highest of highs and the lowest of lows but the one thing we all had in common was our love and friendship.
I'm losing my "litle sister" and it sucks.
To my loving friends,
We are NEVER ready, we NEVER think we've done enough, and we NEVER, EVER want to say goodbye.
Linda is larger than life itself, with a heart to match. After being in her company for 5 minutes, I felt like she had been part of my life forever. She has touched so many people and our lives have been enriched because of her, in so many ways.
When I became a grandmother, Linda sent me the most beautiful, tender note which I immediately printed and saved.
I can remember so many nights I'd be working late and would call your office to leave you a message and Linda would pick up the phone and before we knew it, an hour or more had passed and all we talked about was our families.
Ira, you have all her wonderful and loving qualities and because of that Linda's spirit will continue to live on.
Don't think of her leaving, just believe she is getting ready for an amazing, awesome site inspection so that everything will be perfect when we join her.
Celebrate that we had her in our lives, if only for a brief time.
I love you all,
Barbara
Dearest Arnie, Ira, Cindy, Roberta, Steven, Jacob, and Samantha
All we can do is wonder why, why does God choose the path he does for us? Why do bad things happen to good people?
You can't get any more "good" than Linda. She was always there to listen to everyone and to help whenever she could. She always went above and beyond to ease everyone else's problems. And she never complained about her problems.
I remember all she went through to relocate her beloved Aunt Edith and Uncle Sol from Florida. She took on that responsibility because of who she is. I told her that I'm sure her father would be very proud of her.
I consider Linda my closest cousin. She actually used to babysit me (along with her friend Marcia). I still can't figure this one out. Back then, Linda was eight years older than me. However, it seems like every year, that age difference has shrunk. In fact, a couple of years ago, Linda told me I was actually older than her.
Linda is always so easy to talk to. We used to talk regularly, and I could tell her and share with her anything at all. I've had my share of difficult periods, and Linda always had time to listen and try to help.One time when we visited the Almeas' in Maryland, Linda and myself actually stayed up the entire night talking.
I will miss that, along with everything else good about her, and I will always love her with a special place in my heart.
David
Ira, Roberta, Stephen & Jacob
You have been blessed with a wonderful person in your life. Linda is full of love, devotion and is a beautiful person. These are traits that are hard to find. Cherish the fact that she is part of your lives and is loved by many. Your words are honest and true and we feel for all of you during this time. Please tell Linda how much we are wishing her peace and love at this time.
Robyn, Jerome, Ben, Zach and Becca
I don't cry very often but watching the video and reading Ira's recent posting brought tears to my eyes. Linda has known me for all 46 years of my life. I have always called her "Aunt Linda " though technically she is not my aunt. My mother and Arnie are cousins however my parents and Ira's parents spent so much time together and loved each other so much that when my sister and I came along they were naturally "aunt Linda and Uncle Arnie"
When I close my eyes what I remember most about Linda is her infectious smile :) I can not remember a single time in my life that I was in her presence or speaking with her on the phone and she was not smiling. She was happy all the time and the glow on her face rubbed off on you and you were instantly uplifted.
Also, I remember her hugs. They were big squeezes that said " I love you" My family and I were lucky enough to have Aunt Linda and Uncle Arnie come visit us in the spring in California. I remember as the evening ended getting one of those great hugs and then watching Aunt Linda squeeze both of my kids and tell them how precious they were.
Aunt Linda will soon being leaving this physical world but she will never be forgotten. I love you,
Ira,
I didn't know that your mom was sick. I went through the same experience with my dad a few years ago. Hospice is clearly the best place for her.
I remember when you had to move home to start your business, and how much Linda helped start and grow the business. I know how close you are with her and how much she means to you.
Stay strong my old friend.
Dave
Ira,
I just wanted to send my love and let you, and all of your family, know that your mom is in my thoughts. I never had the opportunity to get to know her very well, but knowing you and what my mom tells me, I know that she is a wonderful woman and everyone will miss her greatly. I wish you all strength and comfort during this extremely difficult time. And of course, my love.
Laura (Blumhof)
There’s so much to say about someone I feel I’ve know forever. Someone I’ve shared countless hugs and laughs with. Someone who could make others laugh and smile without even trying. Linda touched everyone she met and had a way of brightening their day. She went out of her way to help anyone who needed her, even if they didn’t realize they needed her help. I appreciate every smile, every hug, and every conversation, everything….. I know she wouldn’t want us to be sad, to cry, or to mourn; she would want us to appreciate and celebrate her life. I don’t know how to express what a strong, beautiful, and selfless person she was and what she meant to me. It’s not enough to say that it has been a privilege to know her; she will forever be a part of my life and a part of my heart. I cannot really ever let her go, she has meant too much to me, she has given me so much and I have watched as she gave others the same; especially the children. She did so love the children. Each and every one of them. When we beamed with pride at our children, we would look over and there was Linda, beaming just as brightly. She loved us all and made us her family.
I just don’t want her to go, I’m not ready to let go…. I want to continue to have more of our girls only adventures, I want to have more of our talks, I want to hear her voice and her laugh, I want to hold onto her hugs, I want to see her big smile that lights up a moment, I want to hear her talk about her trips and her family and see the love for life in her eyes. I will miss her sense of humor, her strength, her determination. I will miss the smile on her face as she watched the kids play and talk and rehearse. I will miss sitting at soccer and softball together, the countless school events, eating pizza together at family fun night, spending Halloweens together, sitting together at birthday parties, watching the dance recitals with pride, seeing the kids perform in the plays at the end of the year, walking the track together at cheerleading practice, and hearing her say “in two years that’ll be us, ladies” as the fifth graders were clapped out of elementary school. Linda is unforgettable, she is my once in a lifetime person.
Not only did she take care of the kids, she took care of all of us too. And Arnie… she sure did love that man with all of her heart. She wore the pants in the family and made sure Arnie did just as she said… and had a pretty strong way of doing it too!, but always with love. She was the foundation of that family, the glue that held them together, the strength that bound them.
From the very first time we met, we embraced. We were connected. We were family. And as many know, I was the “other woman,” the woman who would call the house looking for Arnie so that we could schedule yet another play date for the girls. I can still here her voice when I called as she yelled for Arnie, saying “Arnie, your girlfriend’s on the phone!” … Arnie, the man she loved more than anything… wow, they were a great team. Amazing parents and grandparents, so strong and selfless, always there to help and always knowing when someone needed them, fully committed to their family and especially their granddaughter Samantha. She became their world. Linda often said that it is because of Samantha that they stay so alive and so healthy, to be there for her, to raise her, to guide her, and to love her unconditionally. They sure succeeded in that. There are grandparents and then there are Linda and Arnie… They became our peers, our friends, there was no age difference, there was no generation gap, they were part of our world, our circle, our lives, our families…
In those last days, sitting with Linda, listening as she asked me to watch over and take care of her family, making me promise to be there for them… But where else would I be, what else would I do for a family that I have grown to love so much. She knew she didn’t have to ask; we will always be family. We will always share the memories and the joys and the pain of goodbye.
She has made peace with her fate, said her goodbyes, left nothing unsaid, and yet all the while, remained strong, selfless, full of grace, and beautiful. I will not say goodbye… I will say thank you. Thank you for touching my life and sharing your beauty. You will live forever in me, your friends, and your family. I love you…
Stephanie
Dearest Ira:
Thank you SO much for sharing your most intimate and personal time with me. Even though I didn't know Linda as well as probably most people on your email, I feel like the 4 days that we shared in Jersey City were very special because we had so much in common and so much to talk about. I will always remember her as a warm, compassionate, and real person. Her smile took drew you in and her heart believed you were safe in her presence. You have been so incredible during this whole process! I am SO proud of you. It just validates how real your relationship with her was. I believe it's the people with regrets, grudges,
and incomplete relationships that have hardship in death. You have none of that because what you and your mother had was real and true. You enjoyed each other, you laughed with each other, you cried with each other and I'm sure you fought with each other. But all those feeling were true and what comes out of truth is what you call LOVE and it's a love that will never go away. Linda will ALWAYS live on as long as your heart is beating!!!!
Be well my friend and keep holding her hand to the end. She will go in peace and wait for us to party with her again!!! Not sure where....but you know she will show up!!
My heart goes out to you at this time. Thank you again for sharing all this with me. I am honored that you would include me in such a personal time in your life.
Thank you,
XXOO
Megg
I know you said when you think of your Mom the first thing
you think of is her smile. For me the first thing I think of is
her laugh. I hear it now : ) I enjoyed our time together fussing
over table linen colors and floral displays for Konica Minolta.
I appreciated her kind consideration always of my crew and
myself when on site. Making sure we had a work room close
to the ballroom and accomodations as well as a table at the
awards banquet and a car to take us back to the airport.
She will be remembered and she will be missed.
I only met your father once but I was impressed by his warm smile
and demeanor. I thought how blessed you are to have parents like these.
ML,
Vicky
How do you put iinto words a life time of memories when you cant understand what is happpening
Two little girls who always had something to giggle about. We were blessed with wonderful families so we were always happy. The last time Linda was able to speak on the phone we were still giggling about how her mom Grandma Shirley and my mom Aunt Frieda always made us dress up for any family function. We always promised not to do that to our kids. Well if we did we are sorry but, it could just be a Jewish Mother thing. As I write this I can hear our giggles and I will always cherish them .
When we were raising our families we lived near each other and were there for each otherthat was special for us. Momwas always proud of her of her family. Im sure you know that.
Although Mel and I live far away we want you to know our thoughts, love, hugs annd kisses are with you. I will cherish my memories forever.
If anyone of you wants to speak we are always here for you
All my love
Sondra
Linda was a warm, vibrant, caring woman whose smile was infectious. I will miss her hysterical “road” stories. She handled all situations with humor, grace and professionalism whether it was braving a Turkish massage dressed only in a hand towel (while hiding from industry associates) or assisting unruly meeting attendees through “Morning After” indiscretion. Linda was a gem and will be sorely missed.
My heart goes out to all of you over the loss of Linda.
She was a very special person with a smile as lovely as her personality. She treated people with so much compassion. You couldn't help but feel like an extension of her family. I will really miss Linda.
Everyone loved your Mom!
We love you, Cynde and Lee
My Jewish Mother,
It is nearly impossible for me to write in this blog with the thought that my Jewish Mother and her family are going through such a difficult time. Linda meant the world to me...she is so much like my mother is it unreal. I am so bless to have two beautiful, knowledgeable amazing women in my life. Linda was like a mother to me, she has taught me so much in her gentle caring way. I cherish all our talks and time together. I had the good fortune to know Linda for the past 8 years and it seems like just yesterday when we met. I remember every single talk we had, all the advise she has given to me, all the laughter and good times we have shared. These will be the memories that I carry with me forever. She was such an important women in my life and I am greatful that I was able to have her in my life for such a short time. She was my mentor in my professional life, as a daughter, as a mother and as a friend. I will live with her beauty forever.
When I lost my father a few years ago, not many people could make me feel good during that difficult time. But as always, Linda was there for me. I will never forget, when I told her how sad I was that my children would not know their amazing grandfather and she said to me...."Why not, all you have to do is share your stories with them and keep him alive in your heart" and that is exactly what I have done. Thanks to Linda, my daughter who was 9 months old when my Dad passed away, talks about Poppy like he lived next door.
I will forever keep Linda alive in my heart as she meant the world to me. Nobody has effected my life the way Linda has and I am sure many people can say the same thing. We had the joy of traveling together....Paris, Mexico, Puerto Rico, Bahamas, Hawaii, Cruises, Ireland....so many memories....I will always remember our talks and good times.
We never expected this to happen, we will never understand how this happened, we will never accept why this happened to one of the most amazing, beautiful, loving, caring, fun, energetic people we will ever know.
You will forever be in my heart....I love you Linda.....
Beth
Hi Ira, I just heard of your Mom’s illness yesterday from Marianne Fernandez. And, today, she told me the news of her passing. My sorrow is very deep right now not only for you and your entire family, but for the Konica Minolta family as well.
Throughout the past years when you both have so very graciously and professionally coordinated our President’s Club trips, I always felt a personal connection to both you and your Mom. Whatever the request, albeit something small or large (such as many room changes), you both were quick to help. And, not only help, but help with a wonderful caring beautiful attitude.
One of my fondest memories was when we were on an extension trip in Europe (I cannot remember the country). And, we were touring one of the castles. I remember sitting by your Mom outside one of the castles; we were simply enjoying the beauty of the castle, the scenery….she was looking up and around that beautiful sky and she then she smiled; her beautiful, room brightening smile. I looked at her for a moment and then she said, “this is absolutely beautiful!’ While the rest of us might have been rubbing our aching feet or complaining about a lengthy bus ride, you Mom, who could have easily had her complaining moments (I know very well she spent many many nites with 3 or 4 hours of sleep)…but, she never did.
She stopped to enjoy the beauty of everything around her, Ira. And, that spirit of life giving love and effervescence is something I will never forget. The friendship of both you and your Mom throughout the years helped to make both myself and my husband John a better person. And, the company as a whole also benefited from that positive atmosphere. So, for many many reasons, I thank you for sharing her with us, and she will be missed by her extended Konica Minolta family.
Take care and much, much love,
Kathy Lurz
Ira,
I am very sorry to hear about Linda. She was a wonderful person and added a
lot of joy to our lives. Her caring attitude always made a difference. Our
thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Whit
I can't even explain how I have felt since learning about Linda. I have been totally sad. Even though I didn't physically see her very often, there was just a very special bond I felt with her when we first met, and it never left me. So many people have given a and glowing... I just loved her, and loved speaking with her. She always made me feel as if I was the most important person. What a gift!
I don't have a particular story to relate, but I do have something very close to my heart to say. I lost my Mom in 1999 and I feel her around me consistently. I talk to her all the time, and still hear her funny comments or words of encouragement. She was one special lady-as every person who knew her would say to me. And, as I read the beautiful comments about Linda, I figured out why she is SO very special to me. It is because she is just like MY Mom. My Mom was the best person I have ever known, and Linda could have been her twin. How lucky we are to have such parents, and we will always have them!
I have known alot of terrific people in my life, but I have never thought anyone was like my Mom, until now. Linda too is one special lady! I hope somehow they meet-what buddies they would be, what stories they could tell and what laughs they would have!!!!! AND how they would look out for us!
Just remember the most important thing is she knows how much you and your family love her. THAT is what counts and always will Ira. It will be a comfort to you always.
My love to you and your family.
Roxanne
From Norman & Giorgie Ross
Meeting Linda started out as simply a business relationship but you could never describe a relationship with Linda as “simply”. Once you met her, you were hooked. She had the ability to immediately embrace you and make you a welcome part of her life, a life mixed with adversity and joy, but always with optimism and her beautiful smile.
Giorgie especially loved Linda. From the moment they met, they were like two peas-in-a-pod. They would speak non-stop for hours…about family, friends, what made them happy or sad, and almost everything else. Giorgie always spoke fondly about Linda and still uses her as a role model, as a person who could look at life…the good, the bad, and the ugly…and end with a smile. Whenever she does, she smiles at the thought of Linda’s smile.
Linda was a kind, caring, passionate woman and a heck of a lot of fun. We will miss her and regret not having been able to share more time with her. But we know that there is a Heaven above and both she and her smile will be welcomed there.
God Bless you all.
Norman & Giorgie
Ira and Family:
Lauren called to share the difficult news of your mom's passing. I am so very sorry for your loss. I didn't have the pleasure of meeting your mom but after reading about her on your blog I can tell I missed one of life's greatest treasures. Please know that my prayers and thoughts are with you and your family and all the people who were touched by your mom's life.
God Bless,
Terri Cleaver
Linda was amazing, kind, intelligent, sweet, sensitive. I met Linda many years ago, it's hard to remember now how many as she made me feel like I've known her all my life. She was very good in her work but she was always better in her favorite role as the matriarch. The love for her family was always in the frontline. It was too sudden, too soon. But Linda's legacy will remain with us. Ira is a vivid reflection of Linda's greatness and her essnce will continue in him.
Linda - you will always be remembered.
Violeta
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